Rodriguez pleaded not guilty to criminally negligent homicide and manslaughter after police said he left his twins, Phoenix and Luna, in the car on July 26 while he went to his job as a social worker at the James J. Peters Veterans Affairs Medical Center from 8 a.m. until 4 p.m.The 22-year veteran of the National Guard told police he exited work and found the twins unresponsive in the car. Prosecutors say he told authorities he thought he had dropped them off at daycare.
"I blanked out, my babies are dead, I killed my babies," Rodriguez told investigators, according to the criminal complaint.
Marissa Rodriguez, released a statement in support of her husband on Monday.
Put on your own oxygen mask first. In other words, take care of yourself or you can't be a fully engaged parent. Parents who deprive themselves of rest, food, and fun for the sake of their kids do no one a favor. "People feel guilty when they work a lot, so they want to give all their free time to their kids," says Fred Stocker, a child psychiatrist at the University of Louisville School of Medicine, in Kentucky. "But you risk getting squeezed dry and emotionally exhausted." A spa weekend may not be realistic, but it's OK to take 15 minutes for a bath after you walk in the door. (A tall request for a kid, yes, but a happier Uno player goes a long way.) Running ragged between activities? Ask your child to prioritize, says Taylor. She may be dying for you to chaperone a field trip but ambivalent about your missing a swim meet—the ideal amount of time for a pedicure.
"Though I am hurting more than I ever imagined possible, I still love my husband,'' she said. "He is a good person and great father and I know he would've never done anything to hurt our children intentionally. I will never get over this loss and I know he will never forgive himself for this mistake."The organization KidsAndCars.org, a nonprofit dedicating to keeping children safe in vehicles, also issued a statement that defended Juan Rodriguez.
How a 'careful mom' left her child in the car"KidsAndCars.org was devastated to learn that the N.Y. father who unknowingly left his twins in the back seat of his car was charged within hours of finding his children had died,'' president and founder Janette Fennell said in a statement to NBC News. "There certainly was not enough time to conduct a full and thorough investigation before six charges were levied. All indications point to a wonderful, loving father who was unaware that his twins were in his vehicle all day. Tragedies like this can and do happen to doting, responsible, loving parents."
Sarah Jessica Parker (mom to three son James and twin daughters Marion and Tabitha): “As a working mother high heels don’t really fit into my life anymore - but in a totally wonderful way. I would much rather think about my son than myself.”
Parking in shade won't prevent hot car deaths, new study says
More than 900 children have died in hot cars since 1990 and 21 have died this year through July 16, according to KidsAndCars.org.
Fennell recommends these seven tips every parent should follow to avoid the tragedy of their child dying in a hot car, including looking before you lock the doors, purposefully keeping something you need in the back seat, and always keeping the vehicle's doors locked.