8 Education and Parenting Mandates for America, the Failing

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In politically turbulent times, when we are inundated with conspiracy theories, identity politics , tribalism, political correctness, extremism, fake news, and so much more, America is failing our children—our future. How do we address the needs of children that are getting lost within our confusion and tumult?

Here goes: I want to advocate for education reform on a more nuanced platform to cultivate rich discussions that our diverse education system requires. However, on September 30, as I was being interviewed by Lars Larson, a nationally syndicated conservative radio host with 3 million listeners, I realized that I must be far more blunt to cut through the noise.
The following are the 8 lessons, tenets, principles, initiatives, mandates, fixes that I have gleaned from 12-plus years of education research and both personal and professional experiences having worked and educated three children in five cities around the globe. We lived in Hong Kong (2006-2010), Shanghai (2010-2012), Tokyo (2012-2016), Palo Alto (2016-2018), and New York City (2018-today) during which time I was a parent, education journalist, education consultant for international students seeking placement at U.S. universities, and . These cities are the leaders of our global economy, and those in East Asia have the highest academic standings according to the OECD PISA exam, a test administered every three years to 15-year-olds across 70-plus participating countries and economies; it tests for reading, math and science. The U.S. scores fall in the middle of the pack and are falling year after year.
  1. Remove technology from classrooms unless used as a support tool with regular proof of positive learning outcomes and a clear understanding of its consequences. All schools must develop an agreed-upon parent-school technology and screen time policy on its monitoring and usage. Eliminate social media entirely during school hours.

  2. Spend on teachers. Require schools, districts and states to prioritize attracting and retaining high quality, top talent and mandate rigorous re-credentialing professional development programs. Nothing is more important to student performance than the aptitude of teachers and the relationship between the teacher and student.
  3. Challenge all our kids with far higher learning expectations while providing intentional supports, but without multiple tries on tests/assignments; this runs counter to how the real world works. Our kids need to build confidence , resilience , and motivation from hard work and overcoming difficulties.

  4. Get corporations out of our classrooms until they are better regulated. (Check out the Miami-Dade corporate lobby registration website.) Prioritize the fundamental learning experiences to improve student performance. #kidsoverprofits
  5. Teach our kids about the linguistically and culturally rich assets within our own country to prepare them for a diverse and irreversibly interconnected world.
  6. Contribute to your community and be part of the bigger picture. Students must participate in and know their impacts on their immediate communities to learn collaboration , patience, compassion, and selflessness. Start by consistently taking care of each other in your home and classroom environments.

  7. Practice a true democracy and create opportunities for all. Strive for equity and equitable funding for schools, especially for those who need it most.

  8. Parents and teachers, roll up your sleeves. Take control of your children’s education day by day. And demand wider systemic changes from administrators and politicians to improve our school districts and school system.

Give appropriate praise. Instead of simply saying, "You're great," try to be specific about what your child did to deserve the positive feedback. You might say, "Waiting until I was off the phone to ask for cookies was hard, and I really liked your patience."

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